Choose your biggest pot and put the wheat berries and the water it was in (if any left). Add hot water to cover. Start boiling. Once it boils reduce the heat to simmer.
Cook the beans in a separate pot/pressure cooker until they are edible. When cooked drain and set aside.
In a separate pot cook the chickpeas until they are soft. If foams appear on top of the water, skim these foams and discard them. When cooked drain the water. As an option peel the skins of the chickpeas by gently squeezing each one.
Add the beans and the chickpeas to the main pot with the wheat berries.
Rinse and add 3 tablespoons (50 grams) rice to the main pot.
The main pot should be your main focus. You can add warm water if necessary. You should occasionally stir, so the ingredients do not stick to the bottom of the pot and does the ingredients are well blended.
Take out the rind of an orange, peel the white part out and then cut to small pieces. Cook for 5 minutes in a separate saucepan, drain and add the orange peels to the main pot.
Peel the remaining orange. Cut to small cubes and add to the main pot. Make sure to discard the seeds first.
Peel an apple. Cut to small cubes, discard the seeds and add to the main pot.
Heat the milk if you choose to and add to the main pot.
Add a tablespoon of honey if you choose to add.
Add a pinch of salt, black pepper.
When main pot starts to look like a watery pudding add 350 grams of sugar and cook for another 20 minutes.
Cut 100 grams of dried apricots to small pieces and add to the main pot.
Add 1 stick of cinnamon to the pot, later discard before serving.
Rinse and add half 100 grams of raisins to the main pot.
In a small saucepan, put 6 cloves and add water to cover. Boil, drain and add the water of the cloves to the main pot. Discard the cloves.
Cook for 5 more minutes. Close the heat and let it cool for about 15 minutes.